My big natural surprise was to find out that one of my girlfriends and her boyfriend had taken a very big risk and she was planning to join him and three other men for the “big, natural amateur” sex party that weekend. I was shocked and asked them why they wanted to go all rough with condoms when they were only in their early twenties. My girlfriend explained that she has always just wanted to have sex and not worry about getting pregnant or dealing with STDs, so she figured that if she went natural she would at least have some say in the pleasure or lack there of. She also told me that she was sticking with her guy because they are very compatible. (At least that was how she thought).